So much this. I’m going through this now. I’ve been jamming with friends for a while and I’m able to mostly keep up, improvise. I think to myself, “I’m not too bad, I’ve got this etc.”
When I try to learn a new, more challenging bass line/play along with a song/hit a lesson with Josh that really challenges me and I think “Nah, I’m actually hopeless and a complete beginner STILL. Why am I bothering?” Or I should be able to play this off the bat, why can’t I?
It is hard but I really appreciate the valuable wisdom. The more you play, the worse you get🤣
I picked up my tenor sax for the first time in months after some dental surgery nonsense, expecting to sound horrible. Man, I sounded pretty darn good.
Then I played again today….and I’m right back at suck. Why? Because my expectations quickly got back to where I was. Yesterday I wasn’t sure what would come out. Today I challenged myself at the level I was playing at.
Can I offer an odd bit of advice that works for me?
If you take a dog for a walk (dogs, in my case) or just go for a walk or run — count! Left foot is 1 and 3, right foot is 2 and 4. “And” is when your foot lifts up. Count as you walk or run. I have clocked my dog walks at an average of 116bpm. I run bass lines in my head as I walk. It helps get the rhythm down. My timing has improved significantly, and you don’t have to have your bass in your hands or a metronome ticking to do it.
I do the same thing. And before I start a new lesson, I practice chugging with a metronome in order to develop right hand coordination and speed. Then I go through the previous excercise and practice that a few times.
My advice is a little different, which is play a bit every day. Take a break from the modules, but don’t put the bass down entirely. Some days I work 12 hours and mind is made of mush. I’ll pick up the bass and noodle a few minutes.
Maybe just 10 minutes. 10 minutes every day will get where you want to go. Don’t obsess over mistakes. Because I’ll bet they’ve always been there but now you hear them. Which is progress in itself.
This really is helpful for me! Really the only time I have to practice during the week is when I’m back home from work and…you guessed it…my mind is pretty mush and I’m not super motivated to play, even though I love the instrument. I’ll try shorter, more frequent times and see where it gets me. Thanks!