I wanted to learn guitar the first time I saw the Beatles on TV. I got zero musical support from my parents, so I saved up for my first guitar when I turned 14 (super-cheapo classical knock-off: $40) and a Mel Bay book of chords to cheesy songs.
Even though my guitar had nylon strings, I practiced until I bled past my blisters.
After ignoring the dinner time call from my mom because I was gamely trying to play, my dad would often bellow out, “Come to dinner! You going to eat that guitar?”.
For years, I played pretty good rhythm guitar in a lot of jams, then bands.
I wrote dozens of songs, music and lyrics, that I ended up performing with a good friend, both of us playing steel-string 12-string acoustics. We worked really hard on our vocal harmony as the songs evolved in complexity. It was extremely satisfying to perform songs we’d rehearsed a million times as we were able to float above it all and actually listen as the audience did. I miss those days.
Fast forward years, after life has interceded on musical pursuits, as is its wont. I had been out of my college music school days for years, and I ran into a hodge-podge gathering of guys who wanted to be a band. Most of them had very little playing experience, and no experience playing with others. I was invited to listen to them and provide a critique and/or tips.
A shorter-long story, the lead guitarist, the only guy with chops and experience in bands, ended up telling everyone except the drummer to go home. He then asked if I’d play bass in a rock three-man band. I accepted, bought a Danelectro Longhorn short scale and a used Fender Bassman, and off we went. We played ZZ Top, Lynyrd Skynyrd, Allman Brothers, bleeding-early Beatles rock ‘n’ roll, and fun was had by all.
A whole lotta years and many in-depth musical adventures with acoustic players and playing later, Covid lockdown came and I decided to actually learn to play proper bass. I researched the online bass instruction offerings, signed up for SBL (and promptly cancelled that within the free trial period ), and came across B2B.
Seven basses bought, two returned for refund, one custom build in the works, and a whole lot of lessons and playing later, the rest is history.