readding mine here, with a bit more detail…
In high school my best friend played guitar (really really well, self taught).
He wanted to start a band and said I should play bass.
I figured I had zero musical ability (cause my father told me so over and over) so I declined.
I did sound for him and his band for a while but was as close as I came.
I tried trumpet long before that in grade school, but was told I was terrible by my dear old dad who didn’t want to hear it. When I told my teacher at school i was quitting he gave me a baritone and said try this instead. That lasted about a week.
Fast forward to post hurricane Katrina.
I got really into building wall frames for Habitat for Humanity who were part of the rebuild effort. Then I learned about all the instruments that were wiped out down there, and started buying and sending student horns down there. Eventually I decided to start playing one of the horns I bought, a trumpet. This led to lessons and getting pretty damn good at it if I do say so myself. Also had a sousaphone, and was asked to be in a dixieland band with a bunch of old musicians in CT who had a band. Only issue is they practiced mid week when I was working. As I am sure you can imagine, i started collecting vintage trumpets and learning about their history.
Fast forward again to meeting a woman who hated trumpet and talked me into trying sax. I actually started on bari sax (a used Jupiter), but instantly decided to switch to sax, and sold all but one of my trumpets. That also came with, you guessed it, an obsession with vintage saxes, and, a new collection, and a website dedicated to Conn saxophone history I built during covid and still maintain (if you know where all the horns are, it’s easier to collect 'em).
But, just before covid, my cousin who was two years younger than me passed away at around 50 years old. He battled mental illness for years and years, and either had a bad reaction to meds prescribed to him, or, took too many on purpose, we don’t really know. But my cousin, Todd, was also a guitarist. He took a lot of pride in building his own guitars and playing them. When he died, something inside me wanted to continue on what he did, but I always sucked at guitars. So, I did some Googling, found Josh and BassBuzz, and ran out to GC to get a Squire jazz bass and Fender Rumble 40, and I was off.
I figured i would be honoring Todd, adding a much cheaper musical hobby vs. sax ($$$$) and would finally best a stringed something. I also found I really liked bass, it made more sense to me than guitar, and tied in nicely to a lot of baritone sax lines that somtimes act as bass. I was always a Gene Simmons fan (actually a KISS fan in general) and loved ToP and Doc and Rocco Prestia. So, bass stuck very very well and very very quickly.
But - I will say without a second thought, that I have stuck with bass as much as I have because of B2B and the support in this forum from all the regulars and folks that were here before me. The support here and foundations from Josh are just so damn awesome.
So, now it’s sax and bass - and no time for either, lol.