I already know the answer that I should learn fingerstyle first. And ideally both. But I just keep gravitating towards the pick. I like the sound better, and (most) of my favorite bass players are pick players. I’m ready to be shamed in the comments.
Whatever blows yer goat and gets you playing
Nothing to be ashamed of. Nothing wrong with playing with a pick.
That said, I do agree with Josh that you should focus on fingerstyle first. Playing with a pick is covered later in the course (assuming you’re enrolled in the B2B program here).
I did my first time through B2B using fingers, then second time through using a pick.
Nothing wrong with a pick. You can always come back and do it again with fingers.
I went through the course on my third-go-round using a pick. (Octaves presented a challenge.)
I played finger style the first time and finger style on a fretless the second time.
I am nearly finished with my fourth-go-round, this time on the new and improved version of the course. I find that I keep learning more each time.
I think finger style is way easier than playing with a pick. I have a lot of trouble muting with a pick since my plucking hand typically does most of the muting. I would recommend learning both - sometimes you just need that extra attack your fingers can’t deliver.
I use a pick even if I’m just putting on a set of strings…won’t leave the house without a pick, just in case I stop at Guitar Center to check out some basses.
Do I care what other bassists think about it?
Of course not.
For the genres I like, picks sound better. They simply do.
You should learn both.
I would not learn pick before finger style. But learning them simultaneously seems like a good idea.
I played guitar(very, very badly) when I was young. So I knew how to use a pick coming in to bass. I’m glad I did finger style my first go through, and I’d suggest it even if you plan on primarily playing with a pick eventually. Most songs that I play, I get the fretting down using fingers and switch to pick after that. I feel like I have an easier time memorizing bass lines that way.

