Ha! I know the feeling. My reality, however, is the opposite. Every time (literally: Every. Time.) I pull out my pedal board for a gig, someone in the band makes a joke or comment about a bass player with effects. It is certainly not the norm, nor is it expected.
What people want and expect from a bassist is someone who has good time, and knows the songs. And, hopefully, brings a decent sounding amp and instrument.
Extra strings (in most genres) and pedalboards are still treated with much skepticism and raised eyebrows from most of the BIG Ps (Bass Ignorant Guitar Players).