OK, so here’s a train of thought that’s been simmering for a while: I have a friend who is a community organizer here in DC. She works non-stop on bringing together groups of people to discuss inequity in the city, and speaking up for people whose voices are often ignored because of race. She also has a family, and is invested in raising her kids to be good citizens. She got her law degree from Columbia University in New York. She is super-smart and the opposite of shallow.
But when she has some free time to herself, you know what she reads? PEOPLE magazine. The first time I saw a stack of PEOPLE magazine in their house, she said that when she has time to relax, she wants brain candy. She doesn’t have bandwidth for complexity 24/7, nor does she want to. She wants to enjoy something easy. PEOPLE magazine fits that bill.
There are a lot of people at all levels of social strata that work hard. Some are lawyers, some are people who work two jobs in retail and/or fast food. This country demands that people prioritize and devote their lives to WORK (which is crazy and awful. work should only be one of many important things in our lives).
Music is a balm for some people. Listening helps relieve stress, takes people away from whatever is making their lives hard. Not everyone has the time, energy, or, most importantly the desire to sit and analyze a piece of complex music. That’s not what they need music for.
You know who does devote time, energy, and desire to enjoying complex music? People for whom that activity brings pleasure and/or stress relief. And that’s cool, because a lot of the time those people also want to make music, so it makes sense that they would want to take time to pull it apart and analyze it.
But it doesn’t mean that we are any better than people who want brain candy music. We just use music differently. I’m not any less than someone who relaxes by coding or watching sports or fixing up cars; those things just don’t do anything for me.
So the problem isn’t people who use music differently than us music nerds. The problem is us music nerds looking down on people because they don’t approach music the same way we do. It’s not “sad” that brain candy music is so popular; it’s sad that we’re all being worked to death. Even if we weren’t, there are always going to be a majority of people for whom the potential complexity of music is simply not ever going to be interesting. They just want to feel good when they hear it. And that’s not a bad thing.