I once posted a question to Josh that i realized later was very silly. He replied with patience and kindness. That’s a lesson in that for me. It’s that being kind and understanding to yourself is as important as being kind and understanding of others.
Having started this at 50 with zero musical experience and plucking fingers that were crushed and didn’t ever come back good, i can understand the difficulty.
It can can be disappointing, it can be frustrating. Much like golf, i find myself running through the whole spectrum of emotions at an accelerated pace.
For me, i had to slow it down. I Can’t learn at the pace of a teenager. My hands are arthritic And old.
Don’t try to force it, my friend. It’s coming, i promise you. No sense practicing until it hurts, because then you got frustration and hurty hands.
Take breaks from it, get plenty of rest between practice sessions. And you can always play something else that you’ve got locked in to realize how far you’ve already come. Because, baby- you’ve come a long way!
Don’t let this bother you. You got this. Keep Making noise!