We’ve got threads on “Playing With Bands” and all, but how about one that talks about “When they DON’T work out”….
Here’s my latest story….
I was asked to join a new band a couple months ago and went through all of the prelims like playing with them and all and was asked to join… It was a new band that consisted of a drummer (the band leader), a lead guitar player, a rhythm guitar player, and a bass player (me). We met and practiced several times and were working on about 50-60 songs in a set list that the leader put together. All went well UNTIL….
They found out that I was making original recordings “outside” of their “belief system”…. Apparently, the three of the other players all play together in their “Church Worship Group” at their church……
A couple weeks ago I got together with the one person that I have always made music with for the past 50 years (we were both on an old diesel submarine together) and we recorded a couple new original songs together…. One of which was one dedicated to one of our old Sub buddies called “Bogies Bar & Grill” that they apparently didn’t like…
Apparently the band leader and others saw my recording on YouTube….
When I was contacted via text by he band leader, I was informed that “That type of music didn’t fit with the nature of the group” and that it would send the “Wrong message” if anyone realized that a member of the group were playing and sharing “Such trash”….
Anyway, after telling the band leader that he could basically “Kiss my ass”… I was… well, “blackballed and relieved of my bass playing duties”….
Oh well,…. I’m having more fun playing original music by swapping music files with my old Sub buddy (and another guitarist) anyway…
Bottom line (and what I’ve taken away from all of this) is that,…… It’s all about making and playing music that puts a smile on “Your” face. I love bing “original”, and am not one to “change” who I am just to be a part of a group.
Had I known going into that particular venture that I “needed” to be some sort of “Special” person who’s talents were more directed towards fitting into “their” mold and not particularly focused on my bass playing talents, I probably would not have joined in at the time…. But…. Life does have a way of teaching us all “Life Lessons”…
So,… next time (if there is a next time) I’ll be a little more “particular” when agreeing to play with others…. Like asking questions like,… “Do y’all play songs that reference things like Alcohol, Drugs, Sex, Rock & Roll, etc”…. Life lesson learned!!
At least I did add a bunch of new songs to my repertoire- even though they were all kinda “boring” songs!!..
Time for a Single Malt and a good Cohiba!!
Keep On Thumpin!
Lanny